As women we say to ourselves, wait 90 days before sleeping with a man. What actually makes us feel sure that holding out for 90 days will make him stay. A man will only stay around if he wants to. That's why I say forget the 90 day rule and be intimate with a man when you are ready. Of course waiting until marriage is best but the next best thing is not the 90 day rule. It's doing it when your mind, body and soul are all in agreement with the decision. Don't be afraid to wait, the right man will wait with you. Learn to value your womanhood because you are in control! Please leave your thoughts below.